Five Tips You Should Know To Get More Sex With Your Woman

There is a saying: men get married to have sex all the time; women get married so they never have to have sex again. It is not certain how true this statement is.  However, what is true is that in most marriages, the sex life does often diminish.  Keeping the spark going in a marriage is definitely easier said than done.  The daily routine of work, getting the kids ready for school or other responsibilities challenge couples to keep the flame bright.  Frankly, most people don’t think there is enough time in the day to fit in sex with their partner.  According to a study done by the University of Chicago’s National Opinion Research Center, couples in a committed or married relationship have sex about once a week.

Interestingly, other studies show that men are “always” thinking about sex, according to researchers at the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction at Indiana University.  By that they meant that 54 percent of men think about sex several times a day, compared with just 19 percent of women, they wrote in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Scientists.

So, if a man is thinking about sex all the time and he is getting it on average, only once a week, where is all the energy going?  He wants more sex.  After all, a good and frequent sex life creates more intimacy, a happier marriage and general happiness since orgasms release endorphins, somewhat responsible for the happy emotion.

Assuming the man is in the right relationship for him, what can he do to increase his sex life?

Create a have sex every day environment– you may want sex every day, but she may not. But, you can increase your sex by doing loving things to her or for her every day. For example, write her little notes and hide them so that she will find them. Put the notes in her panty drawer; the drawer in the bathroom; under her pillow; in her attaché; in the fridge.  Just put messages like, you look good enough to eat and put it in the fridge. Or, write, I think about you all the time.  Or I can’t wait to hold you.  She won’t be able to wait until Friday to get it.  You just might be humping by hump day.

Flowers just because – giving flowers for no reason will get you more loving. There is something about flowers, especially her favorite (because you listen) that will melt away her inhibitions and she’ll gladly go for it.

Pick up your crap – clean up your mess.  While you are at it, clean up around the house.  Also, fix something that has been neglected for some time.  You will be rewarded with open arms and legs.

Be spontaneous – surprise her with something as simple as grabbing a picnic basket and filling it with food and wine and go to the free concert in the middle of the week. Spend time with her telling her how lucky you are to have her.  Get away for that time and she will remember what you did when you are about to beg her for sex.  If you are really spontaneous, get your mom to watch the kids for a night and take her to a B&B in the country for a romantic midweek night.  If that is too much, you may be able to get away with taking her to a day motel for a quick naughty girl romp.

Have a pizza delivered for the kids and lock the master door – Get a pizza and a DVD for the kids and slip away for an hour with your honey.  Don’t forget to lock the door to the master bedroom.  Set it all up by calling her or dropping her a note as to the rendezvous plan.  Do it a day in advance at least, so she is fantasizing about it up to the point.  If you are really creative, have a warm bath drawn, complete with bath oils and soft rose petals in the master tub, some sexy Barry White music or her favorite soft music.

Basically, to get more sex, men, you need to start thinking more like a woman.  You may be thinking sex; she is probably thinking about her sex appeal.  So, help her feel sexy all the time.   What may happen is she will start playing and come up with a few sex escapades ideas of her own. Next thing you know, you’ll be having sex all the time.

Either way, do your part. Couples who take the time to develop and maintain a healthy and mutually satisfying sexual relationship often are more connected with each other and suffer less depression, better handle life’s setbacks, have less heart problems or other health issues, experts say.

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Scott Brown

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